Who did the Emmys Miss?

Every year come this time, there are a list of “snubs” from the nominees for the Emmy Awards.  It is unavoidable considering we have so many new outlets providing us with content for television.  Netflix.  Amazon.  Hulu.  HBO. FX. Showtime.  BBC America.  There are a ton of networks on both cable and streaming sites that make narrowing a list of nominees down truly a daunting task.

HOWEVER….

There are some drastic picks that I believe should have received an Emmy nomination today when they were announced, and I am going to express them…just because.

Bates Motel

To me there is no bigger snub than this one.  Bates Motel has been quietly one of the best shows on television, bar none.  The show itself should have been nominated in Best Drama, but I could almost live without that… but Freddie Highmore, who plays Norman Bates, and the sublime Vera Farmiga as Norma Bates were breathtaking this season.  Especially with the shocking end to this season.  I would also throw into the consideration for Best Supporting Actor in a Drama Series Nestor Carbonell as Sheriff Alex Romero.  The relationship between Norma and Alex was one of the biggest, most charming surprises of the season and led to some of the most tragic and heartbreaking moments of the series.

Krysten Ritter

Jessica Jones was a special series on Netflix.  It was more than a superhero show.  In fact, you could remove the superpowers of Jessica Jones and you could still have a tremendous show about a damaged woman trying to move on with her life after being a victim.  The superpowers were just a part of the story.  And Krysten Ritter played Jessica Jones’ suffering and her alcoholic PTSD to the tee.  Her relationship with Luke Cage was fun and uncensored.  There were so many things that Emmy voters look for in this series that the only thing that makes sense is that this is a comic book series and they do not get nominations from the stuck in the mud Emmy voters.

David Tennent

Case in point.  This is the second brilliant performance by an actor as a Marvel villain in a Netflix show that has been ignored by Emmy voters.  There was absolutely no excuse for Vincent D’Onofrio to be skipped over last year for his role as Wilson Fisk.  So many layers… and David Tennent is arguably even better.  Kilgrave was essentially a rapist, yet before the end of the season, you found yourself rooting for him, understanding the pain and the desires the Purple Man had.  Tennent was tremendous and deserved an Emmy nod.

The Punisher

I dare you to watch Daredevil Season 2 Episode 4 with Frank Castle confessing his sins to Daredevil at the cemetery and not get the feels.  Jon Bernthal made this character his own, despite the failure of several incarnations on the big screen.  He infused Frank Castle with so many emotions that you could feel for this mass murderer and relate to him.  He was so perfect as the character that the show suffered when he slipped into the background.  Bernthal suffered the fate of the Emmy’s superhero prejudice.

Christian Slater 

My supporting actor in a drama category would look very different than the one that the Emmys rolled out because I would have had to have included Christian Slater from Mr. Robot.  The basis behind the biggest mystery of the first season, “Who is Mr. Robot”, Slater was spot on for every moment.  Though it is great that Slater’s scene partner Rami Malek receive a nomination and the series got one too, Slater was so vital to bring this series to life that ignoring him was criminal.

Stephen Colbert

This is first time in years that Stephen Colbert was overlooked.  This is also the first year that Stephen Colbert is hosting CBS’ Late Show instead of the Colbert Report.  Coincidence?  Colbert has found his footing as David Letterman’s replacement and it seemed that he belonged on this list.

 

Lady Gaga

She did win the Golden Globe.  That just goes to show how little the Academy thinks of the Golden Globes.  Replacing divine diva Jessica Lange was a huge challenge, but Lady Gaga impressed people with her vampiric vamping and the drastic bloodlust (literally) from American Horror Story: Hotel.

 

The Walking Dead

Every year, The Walking Dead is ignored.  Now, I will freely admit that this past season of TWD was not near what the show has been.  There is nothing as criminal as ignoring Melissa McBride’s performance from the previous year as Carol made Lizzy look at the flowers.  However, there is no denying that the show is still one of the most popular shows on television and the continual ignoring of the show is wrong.  Carol really deserved it last year.

Orange is the New Black

The Netflix series is another one that has had up and down seasons, but this seasons penultimate episode featuring Poussey was one of the best hours of television this season.  Why would the Emmys ignore this heart wrenching episode with the great performance by fan favorite Samira Wiley?

2016 Emmy Nominations

Announced Thursday morning, 7/14/16…

Full list of nominees:

Drama Series

The Americans

Better Call Saul

Downton Abbey

Game of Thrones

Homeland

House of Cards

Mr. Robot

Comedy Series

Black-ish

Master of None

Modern Family

Silicon Valley

Veep

Transparent

Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt

Limited Series

American Crime

Fargo

The Night Manager

The People v O.J. Simpson: American Crime Story

Roots

Lead Actor in a Drama Series

Kyle Chandler, Bloodline

Rami Malek, Mr. Robot

Bob Odenkirk, Better Call Saul

Matthew Rhys, The Americans

Liev Schreiber, Ray Donovan

Kevin Spacey, House of Cards

Lead Actress in a Drama Series

Claire Danes, Homeland

Viola Davis, How to Get Away With Murder

Taraji P Henson, Empire

Tatiana Maslany, Orphan Black

Keri Russell, The Americans

Robin Wright, House of Cards

Lead Actor in a Limited Series or Movie

Bryan Cranston, All the Way

Benedict Cumberbatch, Sherlock

Idris Elba, Luther

Cuba Gooding Jr., The People v O.J. Simpson: American Crime Story

Tom Hiddleston, The Night Manager

Courtney B. Vance, The People v O.J. Simpson: American Crime Story

Lead Actress in a Limited Series or Movie

Kirsten Dunst, Fargo

Felicity Huffman, American Crime

Audra McDonald, Lady Day at Emerson’s Bar and Grill

Sarah Paulson, The People v O.J. Simpson: American Crime Story

Lili Taylor, American Crime

Kerry Washington, Confirmation

Lead Actor in a Comedy Series

Anthony Anderson, Black-ish

Aziz Ansari, Master of None

Will Forte, Last Man on Earth

William H. Macy, Shameless

Thomas Middleditch, Silicon Valley

Jeffrey Tambor, Transparent

Lead Actress in a Comedy Series

Ellie Kemper, Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt

Julia Louis-Dreyfus, Veep

Laurie Metcalf, Getting On

Tracee Ellis Ross, Blackish

Amy Schumer, Inside Amy Schumer

Lily Tomlin, Grace and Frankie

Supporting Actor in a Comedy

Louie Anderson, Baskets

Keegan-Michael Key, Key & Peele

Andre Braugher, Brooklyn Nine-Nine

Ty Burrell, Modern Family

Tituss Burgess, Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt

Matt Walsh, Veep

Tony Hale, Veep

Supporting Actress in a Comedy

Niecy Nash, Getting On

Allison Janney, Mom

Kate McKinnon, Saturday Night Live

Judith Light, Transparent

Gaby Hoffmann, Transparent

Anna Chlumsky, Veep

 

Supporting Actor in a Drama Series

Jonathan Banks, Better Call Saul

Ben Mendelsohn, Bloodline

Peter Dinklage, Game of Thrones

Kit Harington, Game of Thrones

Michael Kelly, House of Cards

Jon Voight, Ray Donovan

 

Supporting Actress in a Drama Suppoeries

Maggie Smith, Downton Abbey

Lena Headey, Game of Thrones

Emilia Clarke, Game of Thrones

Maisie Williams, Game of Thrones

Maura Tierney, The Affair

Constance Zimmer, UnREAL

Supporting Actor in a Limited Series or Movie

Jesse Plemons, Fargo

Bokeem Woodbine, Fargo

Hugh Laurie, The Night Manager

Sterling K. Brown, People v. O.J. Simpson: American Crime Story

David Schwimmer, People v. O.J. Simpson: American Crime Story

John Travolta, People v. O.J. Simpson: American Crime Story

Supporting Actress in a Limited Series or Movie

Melissa Leo, All the Way

Regina King, American Crime

Sarah Paulson, American Horror Story: Hotel

Kathy Bates, American Horror Story: Hotel

Jean Smart, Fargo

Olivia Colman, The Night Manager

Outstanding TV Movie

A Very Murray Christmas

All the Way

Confirmation

Luther

Sherlock: The Abominable Bride

Variety Talk Series

Comedians in Cars Getting Coffee

Jimmy Kimmel Live

Last Week Tonight With John Oliver

The Late Late Show With James Cordon

Real Time With Bill Maher

Tonight Show With Jimmy Fallon

Variety Sketch Series

Documentary Now

Drunk History

Inside Amy Schumer

Key & Peele

Portlandia

Saturday Night Live

Reality-Competition Program

The Amazing Race

American Ninja Warrior

Dancing With the Stars

Project Runway

Top Chef

The Voice

Host for a Reality or Reality-Competition

Ryan Seacrest, American Idol

Tom Bergeron, Dancing With the Stars

Jane Lynch, Hollywood Game Night

Steve Harvey, Little Big Shots

Heidi Klum and Tim Gunn, Project Runway

RuPaul Charles, RuPaul’s Drag Race

All Lives Matter

http://bsccomment.com/2016/07/08/dallas-police-officers-killed-by-sniper.html

This is not the typical post that I would make at EYG.

But after that last few days of racial tension and divide in our country, I feel compelled to express my thoughts and worries about what has been happening.  I want to state right off that I am white, so I do not have any first hand knowledge of any of the bigotry or prejudice that African-Americans face on a daily basis.  I am also not a police officer, though my lifelong best friend is one.  Thankfully, he is an officer in a small town of just over 6,000 people where incidents like this are few and far between.

However, this kind of hatred and unfettered violence is possible anywhere, and that is the saddest of all statements.

This horrible week’s events started on Tuesday night, when police officers in Baton Rouge, Louisiana responded to a 9-1-1 call at a convenience store of a “black man brandishing a gun.”  There they found 37 year-old Alton Sterling in the parking lot selling CDs.  Known as the CD Man, Sterling was out front with permission of the store owner.  Videos of the incident were shot by bystanders, showing the police wrestling Sterling to the ground, with two officers pinning him down.  You hear someone shout “He’s got a gun” and then you hear shots fire, while Sterling was on the ground.  Police were seen on video removing something from Sterling’s pocket afterwards that looked to be a gun.

There was an immediate outrage in the community and online at the treatment of Sterling.  Quinyetta McMillon, the mother of one of Sterling’s children, said Wednesday,”The individuals involved in his murder took away a man with children who depended upon their daddy on a daily basis. … As this video has been shared across the world, you will see with your own eyes how he was handled unjustly and killed without regard for the lives that he helped raise.”

A CNN report indicated that the 9-1-1 call came from a homeless man who had been begging Sterling for money.  Reportedly, Sterling had shown the homeless man the gun as a way to discourage him from his consistent questions.

And the week was just starting.

The next day, at a traffic stop for a busted taillight outside of St. Paul, Minnesota, Philando Castile was shot and killed inside his car while his girlfriend and her four-year old daughter were there.  The was more to this story, and the world would see it live.  Castile’s girlfriend, Diamond Reynolds, had her phone out and was live streaming the aftermath using Facebook Live.

This video was eerie and heartbreaking as Reynolds, who was at first clearly in shock, narrated the event as her boyfriend died in the seat beside her.  She said that the officer had told them to put their hands in the air, that he had asked for license and registration and that the officer shot Castile as he reached for his license from his wallet.  According to Reynolds, Castile had told the officer that he had a hand gun, and she had said that he had a license to carry.

The video continued dramatically as the police had her exit the car and kneel on the ground.  She said that she had done nothing wrong and asked why she was being arrested.  She was being detained, was the response.  The phone had fallen to the ground, and all that was seen now was a shot of the sky, but sound was still recording.  Someone turned it upside down and it stayed that way until the little girl, along with another police officer, picked it up.  Reynolds must have been given the phone back because she finished posting the video to Facebook while in the back of a police car.

Two police shootings of African American men who seem on these videos to have been unnecessary and excessive was sure to set off race relations that always are right beneath the surface in our land.  As people across the country expressed their grief and concerns over these deaths, the week was not yet over.

Thursday night in Dallas, Texas, at a peace protest of the shootings of Alton Sterling and Philando Castile, a protest that many Dallas police officers took part in, a lone suspected sniper began shooting, targeting police officers.  In the end, 12 officers were shot and five were killed.  There were also a few innocent protesters who were shot.

Gunman suspect Micah Xavier Johnson was killed when, after a tense standoff, the police dispatched a robot with a bomb with hopes of ending the night without any further loss of life.

Although at first, police believed that there were at least two gunmen, now they suspect that Johnson worked alone, with him being described as a “loner” who was angry about the two shootings.  Hostage negotiators said that, during the standoff, Johnson had said that ‘he wanted to kill white people, especially police officers.”

At this point, I was just grateful that nothing else seemed to happen on Friday.

President Barack Obama called the attack “vicious, calculated and despicable attack on law enforcement” and the President cut his trip to Europe short to return to the US.  He is scheduled to go to Dallas next week.

After eight years of a presidency of the first ever African American, it is clear that the racial divide that has strangled this country is still in place.  It made comments that indicated that racism was over since we elected Obama president look even more asinine than they were at the time.

There seems to be little defense of the two shootings this week.  Both African American men did not appear to be doing anything that made one think that they needed to be shot.  It is hard to imagine that either shooting was motivated by anything else but the racial stereotype that a black man with a gun is dangerous and violent.

However, there is also a preconceived notion that paints a wide picture that all cops are racist and out to get African Americans.  Reynolds made an emotional statement to the media after she was released, indicating that the police were attempting to “assassinate” black people.  She even said that her daughter had come to her and said that the police were “bad guys.”

Blanket statements simple do not work and show how much ignorance we have as a nation.

Are there police officers who are racist and who target African American people.  Of course.  There have been plenty of examples of this over the decades.  Does that mean that every man or woman who wears the shield is a racist.  Of course NOT.

Are there African American men who react with violence and who are dangerous people.  Yes, of course.  Does that mean that every black man is dangerous?  NO!

At some point, we need to get past the hatred and the racism that has swept this nation for far too long.  We need to stop thinking that just because one person of a certain group (or even several people of that said group) does something wrong, that all of “them” will do so as well.  Just because the men who brought down the Twin Towers were Muslim, not all Muslims are evil terrorists.  Yet, how many people in America see someone of Muslim descent and immediately think “terrorist?”  Honestly, if you are on an airplane and there is a passenger with a turban, do you think that he/she is a danger to that plane?

The African American community has been targeted by some police officers.  There is no doubt that that has happened.  There are too many African Americans who have stories about being pulled over and detained for no apparent reason to believe otherwise.  From Rodney King to Sterling Castile, there are sadly way too many cases to debate.

Yet, does this mean that every police officer is out to get the African American community?  That every cop who sees a black man driving a nice car immediately thinks that something criminal is going on?  It is a ridiculous idea.  I know there are good people in law enforcement.  My friend certainly is one.

It is far past time that we as a nation look hard at our prejudices and our misguided thoughts, on both sides of this issue, and decide that enough hatred has gone on.  Wouldn’t it be a better world if we could get past our illogical thoughts and treat people as human beings… not just as a manifestation of our own fears and ignorance.

Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. said “Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.” 

Wise words.  It is time to start following them.

 

Sources

http://abcnews.go.com/US/dallas-ambush-shooting-planned-thought-suspects-police-learned/story?id=40422456

http://www.cnn.com/2016/07/07/us/baton-rouge-alton-sterling-shooting/

http://www.cnn.com/2016/07/07/us/falcon-heights-shooting-minnesota/

http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/politics/2016/07/08/obama-dallas-police-shootings-were-vicious-calculated-and-despicable/86842484/

http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/quotes/m/martinluth101472.html

bonhamjournal.com

www.bbc.com

 

Wrecked is Really LOST

Okay, it is well known that I absolutely loved the ABC’s Lost.  It is my favorite television program ever on air and when it ended, I found a hole in my heart which LOST once occupied.

I was at Cinemark waiting for a movie when, on the pre-show, they advertised a new show on TBS.  It was called Wrecked and it was clearly a spoof of LOST.  An airplane crashed on a deserted island and a group of survivors struggled to live.  However, the preview made this look like a comedy in the vein of Police Squad! or Airplane.

I was not opposed to this idea, being a fan of parody (in particular Weird Al) so I wanted to give this show a chance.

I have now watched four episodes of Wrecked and I have to say that this is really a stupid show.  The story lines have dealt with such things as one character not being able to poop in the jungle, as well as exact concepts from Lost, such as an unopenable suitcase, a satellite phone, food being washed out by the wave and taken by another castaway.

Many of the characters are meant to be replicas of the characters on LOST, including the good looking, studly Brit who died in episode one (much like Jack Shepherd was supposed to do).

This is not a show that is flattering to LOST.  It is so stupid that it is hard to watch at times.  None of the characters are enjoyable.  They are unlikable and not in the awesome way the LOST characters were.

This one might be off the watch list now.

Mockingbird

Mockingbird, aka Bobbi Morse, is one of my newest most favorite comics published by Marvel Comics.

I just picked up the first four issues of the series at Comic World this past Wednesday.  I was unaware it was being published and had missed out on #1.  I have always liked Bobbi, from the days of her marriage to Hawkeye to the newest version of her on ABC in Agents of SHIELD.

So I definitely wanted to give this a try.  Issue #4 came out this past Wednesday, and I had to pick up all four books.

How marvelous they were.

Written by Chelsea Cain, art by Kate Niemczyk and inking by Sean Parsons, Mockingbird present our heroine in a new way.  She is smart.  She is funny.  She is sarcastic.  She is very much like the character from Agents of SHIELD.

And I loved it.

In fact, number one was a very intriguing issue.  The story really did not make much sense.  Bobbi was required to come into SHIELD for a weekly medical exam, but we were not sure why or what was going on.  We saw her arrive several times in several different outfits and we saw some really strange things.

In the letters page, Chelsea referred to the issue as a “puzzle box.”  The next four issues will come out and you will start to understand what you read in issue one.  It was a clever way of writing and really helped to engage me as a reader.

We also met Lance Hunter, another character from the TV show, and the chemistry on the page was as sharp as it is on screen.  Issue four saw the appearance of Clint Barton and it reminds us how great Bobbi and Clint were together all those years ago.  I don’t know which one of the men I like with Bobbi better.  But either one is not needed.  Bobbi is special by herself.

I loved this series and issue five is supposed to reveal the remaining parts of the puzzle box.  I cannot wait.

Weirdness at the Movie Theater

Originally published May 11, 2014

I had a strange afternoon today.

I had to go to Comic World today to pick up my comics.  I try not to miss a week because I don’t want the money to pile up in my pull list.  And I have started my coaching of the Freshmen boys team, so my after school hours are limited.  Fortunately, Comic World is open on Sunday.

Now, Comic World is in Dubuque, and so it is a drive of 30-40 minutes, depending on traffic.  This usually meant that I liked doing something in Dubuque besides just picking up the books.  Many times I want to go to a movie, but I had already seen Neighbors and Moms’ Night Out this weekend.  The other option was the new animated Oz movie, but it was not inspiring me.

However, I had another option.  There is a theater in Dubuque called Mindframe, and it sometimes has the independent films that you do not see at AMC or Cinemark.  Checking Mindframe’s web site, I found what looked to be a perfect option.  The movie is called “Under the Skin” and it starred Scarlett Johannson.  According to IMDB, the synopsis of this movie was “An alien seductress preys upon the population of Scotland.”  Sounded great!

The movie started at 11:45 AM.  Comic World did not open until Noon (and many times it is closer to 12:30) so everything was perfect.  I could watch Under the Skin, and then head over to pick up my comics.

I left Maquoketa a little before 10:30.  I am the type of person who likes to be early for my movies.  If a film starts at 11:45, I want to be in my seat with treats at least a half hour before to make myself comfortable.  Today was no problem.  I was puling into Mindframe’s parking lot just past 11:00.

I went in, got my ticket, got treats (really tasty popcorn and a large diet Coke) and I found the theater.  I was the only person in the place.

Now, that is one of my favorite things.  I love being in a movie without anyone else.  It feels like a private showing.  Yes, many times it is because the movie is horrible, but not always.  A lot of times, these smaller films at Mindframe are films that do not attract a large audience.  I saw Killer Joe at Mindframe without anyone else in the theater.  It was the same with Joss Whedon’s Shakespeare movie, Much Ado About Nothing.

So I started munching on my popcorn and sipping on my soda.  And no one else came into the theater.  Alright!  The music was on repeat, and I was hearing the same sections of the same songs over and over again.  I was getting tired of listening to the music.  I was starting to think that it had to be close to starting.  I do not wear a watch, nor do I own a cell phone, so I had no idea of what time it was.

However, I spend a lot of time in movies, and I have a pretty good idea of movie time.  Add to that fact,I am a teacher.  A teacher has to have a good grasp on time, because they have to be aware of when the students need to move on to something new.  It is part of the job.

I was getting curious about what time it was, as I continued to wait for the film to start.  I saw a thermostat up on the front wall of the theater, one of those digital ones, so I thought I would go up and look at that one.  Maybe it had the time on it.  And it did.  It said 12:48.  Now, I knew that it wasn’t 12:48, so I immediately thought to myself that it was 11:48.  I figured that the movie was going to start any second.  I sat back down, though I was getting ready to head out and see if they had forgotten that someone had actually come to see Under the Skin today.

At this point, a short little lady, who I believe was a manager of some sort, came into the movie.  She started by saying to me, “We would appreciate it if you would come out and tell us that the movie hadn’t started.”  I tried to ignore the fact that she was chastising me because their movie wasn’t working and I responded that I had no idea what time it was… that I had no watch.  And then I asked what time it was.

And she said that it was 12:50.

12:50???????????????????

WTF!

I couldn’t believe what she had said.  The movie should have started over an hour ago.  My shock certainly came through because stopped being condescending and immediately began being nicer to me.  She told me they couldn’t start the movie now, because the next one was scheduled to start at 2:05.  She brought me a couple of free passes as a way to make amends.

I sat in that theater for over an hour and a half!  The thing is… it did not feel like an hour and a half.  It blew my mind totally.  Had she said 12:00 or 12:15, I would have been able to accept it, but 12:50?  I still can’t wrap my mind around it.

I didn’t fall asleep.  I hadn’t slipped into a popcorn-induced coma.  (This suggestion was made by the owner of Comic World, who I told this story to later.) There was no way that it was a prank.   I just couldn’t understand what had happened.  And then it came to me….

Is it sad that I feel like alien abduction is a more likely story than just losing track of time?

I left the movie theater and drove to Comic World, picking up my copy of Original Sin #1.  I then went back to Mindframe and pulled into the parking lot.  It was 1:30.  I read Original Sin#1 (SPOILER…The Watcher is killed).  It was 1:50.  I thought about going back inside to watch the movie, but I changed my mind.  It was just too creepy.  So I did not see Under the Skin.

Now, if you will excuse me, I have to spend the rest of the night searching over my body for that implant.

Pet Peeves from the Movie Theater

Originally published December 26, 2014

As a regular movie goer, there are many things that I find trip my trigger while I am trying to enjoy my cinema experience.  I come across this a lot, especially since it has been rarer this year for me to see only one movie on the weekend than not.  Every time I go to a theater, and it does not matter which one it may be, I find these same items happening.

Now, before I go any further with my rant, I want to stress that this does not have to do with any employee of the theaters that I attend.  The ticket takers, the cleaning crew, the concessions people, the various managers and such have always been professional.  Sure some are friendlier than others, some are smarter than others, and some are chattier than others, but you’ll find that in any business that you go to.  In the past 3-4 years of my movie reviewing, I cannot think of anything consistently problematic with the service that I have received.

No, it is not the theaters that irritate me.  It is the viewing public at large.  Some of you who are regular readers of my reviews know that I love it when I am the only person in the theater.  It is such a treat, and a big part of the reason is that I do not have to deal with the others and these things that tick me off.

I am speaking of three specific items.  I could write for a month on many of the traits that irritate me.  Fact is that I am not a fan of crowds and when people get too close, my feathers are ruffled.  That is my own issue.  I am not talking about things like that.  Things such as people walking in front of me without an “excuse me” or sitting directly behind me and chomping on their popcorn do not make this list.  Even those people who feel it necessary to discuss the movie at length as it is going on doe snot make the cut.  All of those things are rude and do annoy me, but there are three things…my true theater pet peeves that bother me.

First, there is an obvious one.  Cell phones.  I hate it when people have to check their cell phones during the film.  What exactly is so important that you have to be checking that damn thing during the film?  And if you cannot take two hours out of your life to not be looking at your phone, then you shouldn’t be going to a movie.  Just today, I was at a very crowded showing of “Into the Woods” (so I was already a little twitchy) and there was a lady on her cell phone during the last 20 minutes of the movie.  There were several young children with her.  They weren’t on their phones.  It was the adult who couldn’t get through without it.  And she wasn’t just checking a text or seeing what time it was…no, no, no… she was scrolling through different screens.  I know because her little light distracted me.  Later that day when I was at “Big Eyes” another person kept turning on their phone, which lit up in my peripheral vision, causing me to look each time.

I don’t know how many times I wanted to yell out “Put the $%#%^& phone away”, but I can remember my mom telling me that “if you can’t say anything nice…” etc etc.  So I bite my tongue and try to refocus back on the movie.  I don’t understand why I have to do that.

Now, for years I did not have a cell phone of my own.  Now I do and I do understand the pull of it.  And I do spend time on my phone in the theater.  However, I set myself a time limit.  As soon as the trailers start, I want to make sure that the phone is safely tucked away in my pocket, on silent.  If I need to look at it, I would not do it in the theater, trying to cover it up.  I would step out into the lobby.  That is how a courteous person does it.  Unfortunately, there are not that many courteous people any more.

Second big pet peeve for me deals with people bringing their own snacks and drinks to the movie theater.  I don’t know how many times I am at the theater and I hear the pop top on a soda can open.  I know that the movie theater does not have a can of soda available so these people have sneaked it into the theater.

I know people who do this.  I would even venture to say that I am related to some of them.  I, however, will never do this.  In fact, I always try to purchase something at concessions.  The movie theater needs to make their money, and they do not make a lot on the actual movies.  In order for the theaters to continue to provide me with movies, they need to be making a profit.

Now, the argument that people make for why they are smuggling their own snacks into the theater is that the movie theater concessions stands are overpriced.  They are too expensive.  I understand that most movie theaters do charge a lot of money for popcorn, pop, candy etc and it is certainly a viable excuse that some families that are already spending a good amount of their weekly income buying tickets cannot afford to partake in the concessions.  Well, guess what people…. if you cannot afford to buy popcorn or a bag of M & Ms, then you shouldn’t be having anything.

This is how I think about it.  If I am going to a restaurant and I can’t afford to have dessert with my meal, I am not sneaking a piece of pie into the restaurant to eat.  I just go without.  It is arrogant that people seem to have an attitude that they are proud of sneaking their own snacks into the theater.  I have even heard people claim that they are doing it in form of protest against the higher prices.  Let me explain something to you Gandhi.  If you are feeling like you are needing to protest high prices, then why don’t you just stay at home and not purchase the tickets.  That would be more effective than you breaking a rule of the theater.  Plus, it can’t be a protest unless you let people know that you are doing it.

In the end, no one is protesting anything.  Instead, people are cheap, and have a feeling of entitlement.

Which brings me to pet peeve number three, and it is connected to that last one.  I don’t know why people think it is acceptable to buy concessions at the movie theater and just leave them on the floor or in the cup holder for someone else to pick up.  This is the height of arrogance.  It’s as if they are too good to clean up after themselves.

The picture at the beginning of this blog post was one that I took myself at Cinemark in Davenport.  The woman was sitting behind me, heard the bottle drop to the ground, stood up, and just left it.  The theater only had a handful of people in it, but you could see from my spot in the front row, several pop cups and popcorn containers remaining as the theater emptied.

I see this attitude at the middle school that I work at as well.  I’ve had students tell me that there are people hired to clean up the school.  They don’t understand why they should do it when the custodians are there.  “That’s their job” I have heard.  I imagine that this is the same thought process that goes through these lazy people who cannot take two minutes to look on the floor beneath their seats and help out by picking up their nachos containers.

Now, I understand that popcorn can be messy to eat.  I have had kernels fly from my container, from my hand, from my mouth and bounce down to the ground.  I know spills happen.  I am not even talking about that.  I am referring to the wonted ignoring of obvious garbage left behind, a problem for someone else.  Seeing those wrappers, pop cups and containers on the ground, I can hear those middle schoolers saying “It’s not my job.”

Whew… that was a load to get off my chest.  Looking back, I know that there are plenty of good, honest people who clean up after themselves and respect the other theater goers experience.  I just wish there were more of those kind of people.

Batman v Superman

Originally published March 25, 2016

I went to see Batman v. Superman at Cinemark on Thursday night in the Quad Cities.  I attended the 6 PM IMAX 3D showing and I was pretty excited about it.  I had the day off of school for spring break, so I spent some of the day wasting time at the theater.  I saw The Bronze for the first (and last) time as well as my second viewing of 10 Cloverfield Lane.

All waiting for the main event of the evening.

Now, I had heard the poor reviews that the film had been receiving, and I knew of the low score on Rotten Tomatoes (which at the time was around 33% and it has slipped even more since), but that did not prevent me from hoping that the film was better than the critics said.

We got to go into the film early, around 4:30 which was awesome because I had been hanging out in the lobby for an hour or so.  I could not find a good movie to fill the time before BvS after Cloverfield ended (Brothers Grimsby would have worked but I was not going back to that travesty of a film even if you would pay me).

As I sat and played on my phone, Snapchatting about my seeing this film, I heard something loud and clear.

“F*ck Marvel!”

The voice was coming from the entrance of the theater.  In a few seconds, an African American man strolled in and began talking in a deep and resounding voice to the entire theater of people.  He spoke about tonight being a historic night.  He spoke about how he had waited for three years for this night.  He made a snide remark about an “ugly-ass” Spider-man from the Civil War trailer.  He spoke about the upcoming Suicide Squad and how the DCEU (DC Extended Universe) was to begin that night.  He claimed that Gal Gadot, Ben Afflack and Henry Cavill had been unjustly criticized unlike any movie before.  He listed off the Batmen (Michael Keaton, Val Kilmer, George Clooney, Christian Bale).  Someone in the crowd yelled out that he had forgotten Adam West, and that brought a laugh from the crowd as well as from him.  It was painfully apparent how passionate this man was about what he and we were about to see.

And he did it in an extremely loud manner walking back and forth at the front of the theater.

At first, I was a little offended.  The language was unnecessary (not sure what the kinds in attendance thought) and, being a huge Marvel fan, I wanted to disagree with him.  However, after a little while, he became less obnoxious to me and more entertaining.  He had promised to shut up during the film and the crowd apparently was eating him up.  Admittedly, one guy dressed up in a Batman cape and mask confronted him and ran off to get a manager, apparently because he did not enjoy the diatribe.

Still, this man represented a group of fans who feel as if they have been put upon for quite some time.  Unfortunately, many arguments on the internet devolves into a DC vs. Marvel argument with DC fanboys hating on Marvel and vice versa.  It was funny how every YouTube reviewer I had seen prior to this and since takes time from their review of Batman v. Superman to ask their fans to not come after them with the hate, because clearly, anyone who wasn’t going to love BvS was a Marvel fanboy.

As the trailers began, our outspoken friend had taken his seat and we heard him again after the Suicide Squad trailer was shown.  It looks to be a great trailer, and could be a surprise hit.  We also got the great Captain America: Civil War second trailer with Spider-Man, and we heard him making crap out of Spider-man’s voice at the end of the trailer.

Then, the movie started.

Now, I had a group of people behind me who were giggling and making shit of the movie at times, and I was more irritated by them than by the guy who had been up front.  At least during the movie, as he said he would, he did not say anything (at least, anything that I had heard.)

As I stated in my review, Batman v. Superman had some good parts, but it also had some real weaknesses.  When the movie ended, those people behind me debated about the film with one of them saying that the film was “the worst comic book movie he’d seen.”

And what about our loud and outspoken friend?

He came back down to the front of the theater and paced before the screen, waiting to see if there was a post credit scene to watch (there wasn’t).  However, he was no longer blurting out loud.  In fact, I did not hear him say anything.  The entire theater had a feeling about it.  I do not think that my crowd thought this was great.  The movie ended and we had a very small smattering of applause.

And I almost felt sorry for the guy.  He had come into the movie with such boisterous bluster, claiming that we were about to witness history, and, although technically I do not know this for sure, he seemed very deflated after it was over.  Maybe he was processing what he had seen, but it really felt as if he was hoping for something more, a post credit scene to give him some hope.  BvS director Zack Snyder had actually stated that he disliked the post credit tease, so I did not expect that there would be one (yes, I did stay anyway).

Batman v. Superman will make somewhere around $180-200 million dollars domestically this weekend and it will most likely end over a billion worldwide when its run ends.  Yet, the film will always be perceived to be like the Transformers series, a group of movies despised by the critics and made fun of by many others only to be highly attended by the population, instead of the respected comic book movies such as The Avengers or the Dark Knight.  A movie more interested in explosions and world building than expanding upon some great ideas or story.  That makes me sad.

Hopefully, they will be able to right the ship for Justice League because the lack of quality for Batman v. Superman will not affect the box office of BvS, but it might affect the box office of Suicide Squad or Wonder Woman or Justice League.  That would be a shame.  Maybe Zack Snyder’s style over substance manner of directing needs to be changed.

Because I don’t know if the guy could take any more.

OJ: Made in America

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The ESPN documentary on the life and times of OJ Simpsons is more than just the story of football star.

I had missed the original play of the first part of OJ: Made in America, shown on ABC this past weekend, but I have caught the replay on ESPN tonight, prior to part two.

It was remarkably compelling.

There was so much more than just the story of OJ Simpson.  This was a story about race relations.  The story about white vs. black.  The story about how a celebrity reached for what he wanted, and how that celebrity fell beneath the weight of that star.

The documentary started off with an image of an imprisoned OJ talking about his daily routines.  This was a stark reminder of how far the mighty football star who initially exceeded the barriers of race. As OJ said, “I’m not black, I’m OJ.”  He became a hero to all.

This first part of the five part documentary was great.  I am very exciting about the remainder of this series.

Frank

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Francis Joseph O’Meara.  My friend.  Figuratively, my brother.

Frank was born on April 2, 1969.  I always joked with him about his birth date being a day after April Fool’s Day, and that he was the “fallout” from it, left over foolishness, as it were.  He would laugh every time I made that crack.  There was no one like Frank.

Last year, Frank was diagnosed with glioblastoma multiforme, one of the most aggressive tumors that originates in the brain.  Frank spent the next year and a half fighting this tumor, and embracing everything in his life that he loved.  Today, the fight has come to an end as Frank’s wife Melissa informed us that he passed away peacefully.

Cancer truly does suck.

Frank was the greatest guy there was.  Anyone who got to know Frank would agree with me.  He was always thinking about other people.  In fact, he would think about others, many times, to the detriment of himself.  I remember when my friend Darin and I were planning on going down to see Frank who was in the University of Iowa Hospital at the time and we were texting with Mel to make sure Frank was up for visitors.  Frank said it was fine for us to come if we wanted to drive through the sloppy and rainy weather.  He didn’t want to put us out.  We went, of course, but it was an example of how Frank, who had every right to be selfish during this painful time, facing this terrible cancer, was still more concerned about us than himself.  Maybe Frank did not understand that we had come to see him more for ourselves than for him.

Now, my first memory of Frank was not a positive one.  I had accidentally run over one of my little kittens while I was on my bicycle.  I was in seventh grade, and it was very upsetting and it was tough on me.  However, the word got back to school, and it became something that people teased me about.  I can remember Frank sitting at a table in the school library (the same school where I now work), laughing about it with two other students.  Ironically, I have no idea who the other two were, but I remembered it was Frank.  I didn’t trust Frank for a while because of that.  That changed though.  Big time.

Frank became one of my closest, dearest friends. Along with Darin, the three of us had a special bond that could not be broken apart by distance or time.  We certainly did not see each other near as much as we would have liked, with Frank living in Lone Tree and Darin and me in Maquoketa.  Our lives got busy.  Our jobs and our families took more and more time from us, but when we would be together, we would still feel that connection.

We really piled on Frank unmercifully.  We teased him about so many things, and he always took it with such dignity and good humor.  I certainly wouldn’t have been as good natured about it as Frank was.  From his old stars and stripes shirt to the stuff we did while role playing, Frank was the lightning rod.

When Frank was being the dungeon master and we were playing Dungeons and Dragons, we had a running joke that we would always go north.  No matter what, we said that we would “go north” and it irritated Frank on more than one occasion.  There was even one time when Frank had said that he had had enough and was going to leave.  He stood up and was ready to storm from Darin’s father’s basement, where we played.  It took Darin to, quite literally, tackle Frank to keep him from leaving.  Eventually, Frank joined in on the gag, and we continued to “go north” from then on.

Then there was the time when I was running a Champions game and I called Frank up and told him that I had a cool idea and I was wondering if he would be interested in doing it, but he had to tell me yes before I told him what it was.  Frank, of course, said yes.  I knew he would.  I set him up as a traitor inside the RP group.  I gave Frank a mission to accomplish and if he killed the other two (Darin and Marc) characters, then all the better.  Frank did a great job, though the failed roll (Frank was very unlucky when it came to dice rolls) kept him from killing either of the characters.   Frank’s character did escape though. The shock of Darin and Marc on Frank’s betrayal was awesome, but Frank had to face the consequences later as it took a while for any of Frank’s characters to be trusted again.  Again, Frank handled that with the utmost class and respect.  He always did.

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Then there was the infamous “Frankie did it.”  Unfortunately, I missed this event, since I lived out on a farm miles from Maquoketa.  I missed a lot of the stuff that happened.  This was at Darin’s father’s house.  Our friend Rick had picked up a magnifying glass and had determined that it was made of plastic.  “It had to be plastic” Rick had said.  And before you knew it, Rick was dropping the glass.  Well, it wasn’t plastic.  And it broke.  “Frankie did it” became the rallying cry, even though everyone knew that Frankie didn’t do it.  The more outlandish the “Frankie did it” was, the better.  Heck, once, even Darin’s father Lyle got into the act.  Lyle had dropped a dish and broke it, and when Darin came in to see him, Lyle said “Frankie did it” …and Frankie wasn’t even there.

Frank was our go to guy for technical issues.  If we needed to know something about the computer or the video game console or anything tech, we called Frank.  In fact, Frank helped me big time.  My first book, Pete and Devin, may never have come to fruition without Frank.  I had typed the book up and had the only copy on an old floppy disc, but it had been damaged and I couldn’t get it to pull up.  So, of course, I recruited Frank as my savior.  He was able to save the copy of he book, putting it on a much more reliable disc.  Frank had only one request and that was to have the book dedicated to him.  I gladly did so, listing the help in the acknowledgement section at the beginning of Pete and Devin.  He was a life saver.

Then, there was the spring break trip to Atlanta.  I used to bring this up all the time, but it had become something that Frank was tired of hearing about and he was becoming irritated by it.  Out of respect, I told Frank that I would stop telling that story, no matter how funny it was, and I think I, for the most part, have kept that promise.  So I will not go into it here either.

Frank met Melissa and their lives were changed.  Frank became a surrogate father to Mel’s two boys, Mike and Kyle, and he showed them so much love and caring.  He couldn’t have loved those boys any more had they been his own.  Mike recently married a young woman who already had a couple of children, and I know that Mike will be able to look back on Frank and know how to be a father to those kids.  He had a great role model.

And Mel.  She was Frank’s soulmate.  They were so perfect for one another, and I was proud to stand up as a groomsman at their wedding.  I know these last few weeks have been horrible for Mel, as she had to deal with her friend and her love’s final days.  When we visited, you could see the weight on her shoulders and I am sure that she will look back on this time as some of the worst of her life.  But all I can think is that I am so grateful to her.  For her strength and for her determination and for her love.  I am so grateful that Frank had her during these last days of his life.  I hate to think what might have happened to Frank had this wonderful woman had not been in the picture.  No matter what happened, Frank knew that he would not be alone.  He knew that he was loved.  I am so sorry for the pain and the suffering that you had to go through Melissa, but I cannot thank you enough for going through it.  You are an angel.

I don’t know if there is any sort of afterlife, but if there is, Frank will have a place there.  He was one of the gentlest, kindest men I have ever had the great pleasure of knowing.  I have always been better at writing my feelings than expressing them verbally (hence this writing), but I did have the chance to tell Frank that I loved him.  This world will be a lesser place now that Frank is no longer a part of it.  I will hold my dear memories of Frank close to my heart for as long as I get to remain in this land of the living, and I will take comfort in the knowledge that I was a richer person from having him as my friend.

Rest in peace, my brother.  I love you.

EYG Blog

Welcome to the All-New, All-Different, Reborn EYG!  Yes, this is a big step in our little world, but it had become necessary.  The folks over at Ning had made it basically impossible for me to continue the status quo, and, if you know me, I abhor change.  This is a huge step for me.

Having said that, this is also exciting.  I am slowly trying to figure out the features here at our new home at Word Press.  I hope to be able to start getting things up and going over the next several weeks.

For the time being, I will continue to use the notes function over at Facebook to write the movie reviews until I can figure out how everything here works.  My goal is to have everything up and going by the end of the summer.  *FINGERS CROSSED*

I had hoped to write a blog post on the big Captain America is Hydra Agent reveal, and then I wanted to write one on the death of Muhammad Ali, but the previous site fought against me.  Worse yet, the people in charge over there seemed to not give a damn.  They never responded to my request for help.  They forced my hand…and so, here we are.

I have a lot of hope that this is going to be a real positive change for EYG.

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